Second Interview with 'Our Way' Magazine.

Age: 28

Weight: 110

Height: 5'1"

Hair: Sandy brown

Eyes: Hazel

Motto: Poena Ipse Voluptas (Pain is itself a pleasure)

Ambition: To live filled with joy while exploring my dominance to its full extent.

Turn -Ons: A submissive who is communicative with me and not afraid of letting me know his feelings.

Turn-Offs: Those who think less of me solely because of my involvement in BDSM.

Favorite Toy: Hand braided floggers. They are truly art.

Favorite Flower: Roses!

It has been a long time since we last had you as Mistress of the Month. I'm sure a lot may have happened to you in the last year. What's new? Have you made and major changes in that time?

I guess the most important change is my new dungeon. I have moved to a new home which contains a very luxurious, comfortable, dungeon. It is about twice the size of my old one, containing 3 rooms. I have of course expanded my collection of toys to fill the new space!!

I also published (with your help) a small book containing some of my short stories. I have always loved writing, and I thank you for giving me an outlet.

The last time we talked you mentioned that your interest in BDSM has been a progression. How did you start? How did you get to where you are today?

I was introduced to BDSM much as I think many ladies are, by an eager husband. I will admit that I was very afraid of BDSM, I didn't understand it at all. Despite all of that I was interested, and willing to try.

I began as a submissive, but quickly found my true calling as a Domina. As my knowledge and skills improved, so did my enjoyment. I now consider BDSM to be the most important part of my life. I play everyday, I teach couples how to include BDSM in their relationships, I write about BDSM. I guess there just isn't anything else I would like to do.

When we held our first interview your web page was brand new. How has it worked out for you?

The Milliscent.com domain has been a tremendous tool for me. It gets an extremely high number of hits each month, and has resulted in my meeting a tremendous number of people, many of whom have become the very best of friends.

Can you give us an idea as to who your contacts are as a result of your web page?

I receive about 100 Emails per day. The majority are from men in search of a Mistress. I also receive email from couples seeking advice, and the occasional lady will write looking for a Mistress.

I make every attempt to answer all of my mail within 24 hours. I know that some don't, but I feel that if someone takes the time to write me, they deserve a prompt reply.

Have you recently had any great crossdressing scenes that you can share with us?

Actually I am sort of in the middle of one right now. I have a most wonderful slave who came to me about a year ago. He started with the vague idea that he would like to wear panties on occasion. I have been regularly feminizing him ever since. He now has a very nice female persona, and he doesn't know it yet, but I plan to dress him as a French maid and have him serve at my next party!

It is a great thing to watch someone's fantasies expand in this way.

I know that you often say that you have no specialty. What exactly do you mean by that?

Everyone who comes to me has a different fantasy. I believe that I enjoy almost all that I encounter. I think that is because what I love about BDSM is looking into a slaves eyes, and knowing that they are very deep into sub-space. Knowing that for a few moments they truly do belong to me.

Knowing that for a short time, I am their only reality.

I have many "tools" both physical and mental. I feel that my enjoyment of BDSM comes from meeting my goal as mentioned above. Not from the particular "tool" I am using.

Do you feel that there is still more for you to learn about BDSM?

Certainly. I don't think that we can ever know everything. My schedule can sometimes get very hectic, but I do make the time to attend educational forums, whenever possible.

I also try and surround myself with other experienced dominants, in an attempt to exchange ideas and grow.

How do you feel about your submissives?

I admire them a great deal. It makes me happy that they are open enough to be able to live their fantasies instead of keeping them hidden. They also give me the freedom to explore my dominance to the full extent, and for that I thank them more than they ever can know.

On the Internet there has been a lot of talk about FemSupremacy lately. How do you feel about that?

I do not believe in FemSupremacy. I do not believe that women are superior to men simply because of their gender.

I do believe that we are all born with special gifts, and that we should use these gifts to improve our own lives, and the lives of those around us.

The idea of FemSupremacy is absurd, if for example, one were to assume that a woman who abuses her children is somehow superior to a man who is a wonderful father.

I notice from the above and from some of your Internet posts that you are not afraid of controversy. You seem quite willing to state your beliefs. Wouldn't it be better as a Domina to avoid controversy? To stick with subjects in which most everyone agrees?

I suppose that from a business standpoint you are correct, but I don't view BDSM as a business. It is my life. Sometimes if you believe something, it is good to state that belief. Otherwise the world will change, and you will have had no say in its new form.

Do you have a special way of working with “first time” submissives?

Yes. I find that first time submissives are usually not quite sure of where they would like to go in a scene, and they often times have a great deal of fear. As a result, I keep their first scenes very mild and erotic.

It is better for a submissive to leave the scene happy and feeling that he could have gone further, than to have him leave thinking that he went too far, and not wanting to ever try it again.

If you have a willing submissive, how far will you go? How sadistic will you get?

It is very important that I know my submissive wants to be stretched to his limit. If I know that without a doubt, I will take him to the very limits of safety and sanity. I will not do anything which I consider to be unsafe, but everything else is fair game! There are however very few submissives who desire to experience me at my most sadistic.

You mentioned that your dungeon is in your home. What are the advantages and disadvantages of that set-up?

There is only one real disadvantage, and that is loss of privacy. When I decide to see a submissive, he now knows where I live. That isn't much of a problem however because everyone I have ever played with has respected my privacy and kept things very discreet.

The advantage is the wonderful setting which I am able to create. I can provide my slaves with a place to play that is much more comfortable than would ever be possible in a commercial space.

Any plans for the future?

I do still hope to expand my web site, at Milliscent.com. I hope that someday it can be a very informative place for people seeking information about BDSM. I think that it is moving in that direction.

Other than that, I intend to keep pursuing my dominance! I hope that slaves still come to me when my dungeon is located in my nursing home! I can't see my life without BDSM in it.

You mention a desire to help couples explore BDSM. What advice would you give to a reluctant wife?

Don't be afraid. Explore BDSM in a safe, loving way, and you will never regret it. Communicate often with your partner, find out what works for you both and concentrate upon it.

Have you a parting message for “OUR GIRLS”?

Yes. The same one as last time.

Please never feel guilt or shame over your desires. They are perfectly natural expressions of yourself and can contribute a great deal to your happiness.

Please seek out those who are willing to accept you for who you are, and won't judge you by those things which make you different.

Do not fret and suffer over your desires, explore them, live them, find joy in them. You will never regret it.

Bobbi, I thank you very much for giving me the opportunity to once again be Mistress of the Month. You are a very special friend and have done a great deal for me. I hope that someday we will get the chance to meet in person!

Mistress Milliscent

I do too!! Ms. Bobbi

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