Certainly. I’m in my mid 30’s and have been exploring female domination my entire adult life. I had a perfectly normal childhood, growing up in a small city surrounded by loving family and friends.

I now live in the mountains outside of Seattle, where I have created a unique and amazing studio in which to practice the art of female domination. This is my passion, and it consumes my life and lifestyle.

I also enjoy the great outdoors, individual sports, reading, and a glass of fine red wine.

As an adult I was introduced to it in my late teenage years by the man I would eventually marry. I was a bit uncomfortable with it at first, but quickly overcame that nonsense and have never looked back.

I also do however have childhood memories of rather unusual play times with the neighbor boy. I recall spanking him fairly regularly.

Poorly. Like so many men mine introduced female domination to me with S/M magazines.

Lucky for us both, I was able to see beyond that. To grasp the fundamental concepts behind the pornography.

I am both. I have been a successful professional dominant for many years now, and it is a vocation I love. I will never give it up and often joke to friends that I’ll still be whacking them when I’m in the nursing home.

I am also a lifestyle dominant. I play with poor hubby, play that is currently focused on my sexual freedom and his role as my cuckold. I have a very select few part time service oriented submissives who serve to make my life better in a myriad of ways. Lastly I always enjoy having one full time slave. I was without such a person for almost a year after releasing my last, but am now once again blessed with a wonderful full time submissive.

I've always been open to new erotic experiences and have from time to time enjoyed traditional sex outside of my marriage. Taking a more or less full time and permanent lover seemed quite natural given my female dominated lifestyle.

To me cuckolding signifies in a very tangible way that in my household my sexual pleasure is of paramount importance, and that my hubby must find his sexual satisfaction only in seeing my pleasure.

Control. Knowing that my needs, wants, and whims will be met as desired. Knowing that if a submissive fails me once, proper punishment and training will ensure that the same failure does not happen twice.

My view on this question has changed through the years.

When I first became involved with female domination I did not consider myself a female supremacist. I was looking at the concept from the perspective of classes of individuals.

Now I do consider myself a female supremacist. I have come to accept that in my house I, as the female make the decisions, and hold the responsibility for them. I lead, males follow. That makes my home a female supremacist one.

I believe that right now most people hold an impossible goal of equality for their personal relationships. Absolute equality is not an attainable goal; one partner in any relationship is always the dominant one.

When we think that we are striving for equality, what we are really striving for is to win our point, whatever it may be at the moment. When both partners are trying to win the point it causes nothing but conflict.

What’s rather interesting to me is that despite the fact that one particular partner will generally get his or her way, the striving to ‘win’ continues forever.

It seems to me that this constant striving for absolute equality is the source of most conflict within relationships, and that both partners would be happier and more fulfilled if a decision was simply made about whom would be in charge. Who would lead, and who would follow.

This is how my own relationships are structured, and naturally I think it better if the female is in charge.

My marriage changes a great deal from time to time. Different things interest me; play with hubby changes as my moods change. Right now I’m greatly enjoying orgasm denial and cuckolding. Hubby sleeps in his bedroom; I sleep in mine with my slaveboy.

It is great fun for me, and from hubby’s constant state of excitement I can easily see just how fun it is for him as well.

I am not a huge fan of chastity devices. They are fun to use as toys, but I've found hygiene and comfort issues with their long term use. Generally he is on the honor system, but that isn't a problem as I can easily tell the difference in his behavior between when he has cum and when he has not.

I don't have him on a set orgasm schedule, but have often thought of creating one. If I do, one orgasm every six weeks seems about perfect to me. Perhaps I shall do that one of these days. I've also been often intrigued by the thought of permanent denial, one never knows what the future will hold.

He is allowed sexual activity with me, but it is infrequent, and he knows that he doesn't please me as my lover does. His skills just aren't up to my lovers standard. It seems to me that his knowledge of that fact makes his own often failed attempts at pleasuring me more painful for him than if he was simply denied access to my body.

This is always a hard question for me because what I love most about D/s is the tremendous variety of play. I’m pretty sure that I love everything, and I adore the fact that there is so very much to explore.

From fetishes to feminization, from bondage to beatings, from leather to latex, from discipline to dildo’s, from boots to ball-gags, from dominance to degradation, from sadism to sexy shoes, from worship to whipping, from submission to sex, from masochism to marking, from crying to cutting. I truly love it all.

Fulfilling, joy filled, and twisted beyond belief.

I do, and I love it. I love having the opportunity to help another woman as she begins to explore her dominant side. To watch her bloom as she takes the first steps in ruling her male.

Black leather boots, black leather g-string, black leather corset. Such an outfit can never disappoint.

That a larger percentage of the male population than we can ever imagine want to be dominated. Not just in the bedroom, but outside of it as well.

Secondly, and unfortunately, that most men are very bad at communicating these desires to the women in their lives.

Remember that your treatment of your wife, and your activities immediately following a BDSM session, and your own sexual release, will show your wife in no uncertain terms whether your claimed desire for submission is a true indication of what you need to thrive, or just a game in which you use her to fulfill your own fantasies.

If she grants you a BDSM session and you fall asleep right after she allows you to cum, you can bet that she will not look forward to repeating it.

If however you jump right up and do the dishes for her, I assure you that she will be thinking of the next time before you return from your task.

Of course, Elise Sutton. I have read, and loved her website for a very long time now.

I believe that it must. Men did after all have to give women the right to vote. Men have to vote for women in order for them to be elected.

Female power is growing because after thousands of years men have stepped out of the way, and women have charged into the gap.

The changes in gender relations over the past 100 years are profound, and the speed at which they have come about will be amazing to future historians.

Embrace the exploration of female domination, don’t fear it. Remember, we only truly regret those things that we were afraid to try.

Thank you as well. It is an honor to have gotten to know you. I hope that you will visit my web, and my blog from time to time, they are respectively at:

http://www.milliscent.com

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http://milliscent.blogspot.com

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