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July 19, 2009

Smoking: Fetish With Elegance

I've posted of the fact before, but I should again mention that I am not addicted to nicotine. I do smoke on occasion, a cigar or a cigarette, perhaps a time or two a month.

One of the very best ways of smoking though is as a part of a fetish scene. Some submissives adore their smoking dominatrices, and I must say that it is absolutely delightful to experience a slaves worship while smoking, knowing that his fetish for my smoking is driving his arousal and desire to unbelievable heights.

The elegance of smoking though is all about accessories.

Today I bring you an online shop that clearly understands that fact, and indeed some truly beautiful and stylish accessories from there and elsewhere around the web.

The Lady Smokes

Is the beauty gracing the page not to die for?

Cigarette Holders from The Lady Smokes

To my eye the Cabriole, and the Meerschaum holders are both the height of elegance. The Cabriole would be delightful for it's potential length, yet the meerschaum would be best in it's shorter size.

Dunhill Cigarette Holders from Cup-o-Joes

I find Dunhill to offer the absolute height of smoking elegance, and certainly their cigarette holders are no different. All on the linked page are exquisite.

Dunhill Cigarette Case from Cup-O-Joes

Cigarette packs are ugly, commercial, and filled with warnings. Style demands that ones cigarettes be held in an elegant case. Black leather fits the fetish bill perfectly.

Old Boy from Pipes And Cigars

One must light ones cigarette, and elegant lighters cannot be found at the local 7-11. The IM Corona Old Boy lighter is in my view the most beautiful ever made, surpassing even the Dunhill Unique.

Lastly I must speak of Ashtrays. My fetish smoking is done with what must be the world's finest ashtray. A specially and finely crafted gag to which an ashtray is attached assuring that it is always handy to me as my slave kneels and adores me with his eyes.

Remember my sweets that becoming addicted to tobacco is dangerous indeed, but occasionally using tobacco for the slave who holds a fetish for it is harmless, and done correctly can be a most amazing amount of fun!

For those who may be looking for that perfect gift for the dominatrix who enjoys smoking fetishes, I am quite certain that any of the items mentioned above would be a superb token of ones esteem.

For those who don't enjoy a fetish for smoking, worry not, I never add smoking to my scenes non-consensually!

July 27, 2008

Smoking In Seattle

As those who live here know Washington State has one of the toughest smoking bans in the country. Smokers are relegated to their own private homes, the outdoors a proscribed distance away from building entrances, or to Indian Reservations that are not affected by state restrictions due to their sovereign status.

As a 99.9% non-smoker this ban doesn’t affect me personally, but it is interesting to watch how people are forced to cope with overreaching regulation. Indeed at the same time as we have this ban I know that the popularity of extremely high quality cigars remains high, and there seems to be some similar resurgence in the number of people who enjoy smoking pipes.

All of this comes to mind because my husband is one of the people who loves these less hazardous ways of smoking, and as it is so difficult to find a commercial establishment in which one can legally partake he is hosting a smoking party for his circle of smoking friends here at our house soon. I imagine that the place will smell a bit for a day or two, even if only from smoke wafting through the windows from outside, but no harm can come from such an occasional event.

I mentioned above that I’m a 99.9% non-smoker, so perhaps I should explain for the benefit of those who are new to this blog. I occasionally smoke when I’m with someone who holds a smoking fetish. A fetish for watching a woman smoke. I have great fun with it, with watching the fetishist’s reaction to each of my movements as I smoke. Indeed with such an aficionado a smoking scene can be a truly amazing thing.

The thought of smoking I think brings up images in our minds. It does for me anyway. When I think of cigar smokers I think of businessmen or politicians, men in the proverbial smoke filled room making weighty decisions their discussion concerning the vital issues of the day, and how their organizations must react to those issues. I also conjure an image of a female cigar smoker. Sexy, smoking the cigar as an outward sign of her acceptance of her own hedonism, enjoying it as a sensual experience. Both of these images are of course positive ones to my mind, different as to gender, but both positive nevertheless.

When I think of pipe smokers I think only of masculinity, perhaps because that is all I have ever been exposed to in that context. Thoughtful men sitting with their pipes thinking about the issues of the day, perhaps quietly discussing them with their fellows. Men of contemplation more than action. A much different image from that of the cigar smoker, but nevertheless once again a very positive image.

When I think of cigarette smokers my thoughts are inevitably drawn to the dominatrix. The elegantly cool, delightfully cruel dominatrix enjoying a unique cigarette likely in a long and stylish holder. Again this is a positive image, and one of great power.

I don’t often think of smokers in the way others may, of people addicted to the drug contained in tobacco and delivered by the cigarette. Perhaps that is because I am not often exposed to such, nor to the physical damage that cigarette smoking can obviously cause.

As I’ve never been addicted to cigarettes, and most all of my friends & family are non-smokers it is perhaps easier for me to have these positive images of smoking than it would be for those who are more personally effected by it.

I write all of this for two reasons. As I’ve mentioned my home will be hosting a smoker soon, and watching the invitations be prepared this morning has made me think about smoking in a way that I normally do not. I also write this because recently I found a photograph on the internet which somehow called to me. Not a pornographic, or bdsm image, not even a sexy image, but one I found to be strangely erotic. Quite far out of the norm, I thought that I would share it here.

Now that I know how to extend an entry, you will find this image by clicking on the ‘Continue Reading’ link below.

I am curious as to what you my readers think about this image. Does it convey elegance? Is it for you somehow erotic? Does she bring up thoughts of the cool and cruel dominatrix? Is she contemplating your suffering while she enjoys her quiet thoughts, her smoke? To those of you who hold a smoking fetish I must wonder, does this image call to that fetish? Does it convey nothing of the sort to you?

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