In postings on your blog sissy has been recounting her erotic experiences with another dominant woman. Did you have difficulty overcoming feelings of jealousy when you allowed such service to take place? Did the fact that the other woman is your sister make it easier or more difficult for you? Do you see 'outside' play opportunities for sissy growing in the future?

By nature, I can be rather possessive and sometimes jealous when it comes to my romantic relationships. Teasing sissy about serving my friends, girlfriends or perhaps other women makes for very exciting, erotic and titillating fantasy but in reality, I have had a difficult time with letting it happen.

As sissy has met some of my female friends who are aware of our lifestyle, I've sometimes brought up their names during "pillow talk", suggesting that someday, sissy would be made to serve and/or service them. This verbal type of foreplay has its obvious effects on her. The thoughts of her submitting to some of these friends, particularly when I single one out by name, brings clarity and specificity to the potential scene and excited sissy even more.

The number of friends I have in this inner circle, particularly those who have seen sissy "en femme" is very small. They are all very, very close friends. At one point or another, they've each dropped hints about how nice it would be to have sissy at their disposal for a short period of time, or longer in some cases. One friend came right out and asked me!

Allowing the service with my sister has made it easier. While I am sure the situation seems bizarre and perhaps "over the top" to some readers, it did lessen the feelings of jealousy that I experienced. If I was ever going to allow, or require, sissy to be of service to others, I also thought that the situation with my sister would serve as a good starting point or, at the very least, a way to give it a try. It was a good fit in other ways as well. It blended well with our established lifestyle. The "babysitting" theme had legitimate meaning to it. In addition, my sister Sherry understands the limits and I trust her implicitly.

I do see the possibility that additional outside play opportunities could develop for sissy in the future. At present, it's not something that I am actively seeking, but given the right opportunity, I might explore it further. Also, it's by no means a given that the outside play opportunities would be of a sexual nature. They are more likely to involve other types of service, at least initially. Sissy's safety and well-being will always be of the utmost important as well. Reality is that I would never put her or her health in any type of jeopardy.

My jealousy and possessiveness will always come into play however. That will never go away. In the end, those traits might severely limit the number of opportunities that come up in the future. They may, or they may not. If they do, then so be it.