A 24/7 Slave In Seattle
A very nice gentleman has been talking to me about full time, long-term slavery recently and that has had me thinking about the subject.
All of the men who have entered my personal life over the years have come to me from the group of men who see me on a professional basis. Those few who have entered my personal life have joined me in a variety of ways from friends to submissives, some spending time with me on an infrequent basis, some spending a great deal of time in my home. I guess though that this group isn't limited to gentlemen, a few ladies have also moved from my professional to my personal life.
I don't want to draw a hard distinction with my paragraph above, and I hope that it is not misunderstood. I enjoy all of the people who come to visit my domination studio on a regular basis, and I consider all of them friends. Most of them however, due to their own personal situations, cannot spend time with me without a measure of pre-planning to ensure their freedom at a specific time, and that limits my possible interactions with them.
Beyond the people who are in my personal life I have thought a great deal about possessing a long term, full time slave but I don't actually search in an active way for such a person. That is I think because I don't think that the perfect person for me exists. My requirements are too strict and my desires of her qualities are too far outside of the mainstream of submissives.
You see, I'd desire a full time, long-term slave to be, for want of a better term, a housewife. She would be female and free of outside commitments. Her days would be spent keeping my house and studio, outdoors and in. Running the household errands and taking care to prepare wonderful meals. In addition to her household chores she would join me in my studio while I played, likely not an active participant, but as art, a body bound in the background serving as visual stimulation much like a painting on a wall. She would be beautiful, forever dressed provocatively, and would be required to spend a good deal of her time maintaining her figure for my pleasure and the pleasure of those who put eyes on her. She would also truly be my slut. She wouldn't necessarily be used for my own sexual satisfaction but my life contains men who are not necessarily submissive, vanilla men who nevertheless know about my lifestyle and spend a good deal of time at my home. My contractor comes to mind. My slave would be required to energetically pleasure men in my life such as this, offering her mouth or body as I command, as I watch, or not. Alas, I fear that such a woman does not exist.
Many delightful female submissives are out there, but one who is erotically fulfilled by housework? I fear not.
The fact that I do not actively search for a full time, long-term slave does not mean that I don't actively think about possessing such a slave. I do think about it. Who's to say that the perfect woman does not someday stumble across my path, or that a male with his life in order for such slavery does not interest me enough to make him so.
That thinking has resulted in this post. Specifically thinking about free time.
I don't think that such a slave should have free time. A slave is in an owner's life for only one reason, to provide pleasure through service. A slave enjoying free time is not providing service.
I think that a slave's time should be kept full. A slave living with me could expect to have his or her days filled with work for me. Not meaningless works like scrubbing a bathroom with a toothbrush, while such work might be delightful, it isn't really work, and would be a reward for a slave not a service to his or her owner. Meaningful work is what I would expect, work that improved my life and my household. Not necessarily physical work either, intellectual work is of tremendous value in our society, and I would use a slaves gifts, talents, and education to the fullest.
A slave does not need television, does not need to sit and relax. I don't think that such things are properly a part of a slave's life because they add no value to their owners. What does add value is work and self-improvement. In my view those two items should be made the predominant parts of any slaves life.
That is not to say that a slave would not have an opportunity for refreshment, certainly a slave should be given eight hours a day for refreshment and sleep. A slave would enjoy outings with his or her owner as the owner desired, would have opportunity for play such as that cleaning of the bathroom with a toothbrush, or even a nice whipping, and I imagine romantic time serving an owner in erotic ways. It is though to say that a slave would not sit and vegetate. Slaves should be working to serve and bring pleasure, never just sitting like a bump on a log, that is something fundamental that I think they should be denied.
I know that this view seems harsh, that it seems unreasonable to say that a slave should not be given time to just sit and contemplate, but it should be remembered that a life of service and slavery is not supposed to be easy. It is supposed to be hard. A slave is supposed to suffer and be denied so that his or her owner can have greater pleasure than they would experience without ownership of the slave.
Ultimately as well, I think that a slave who is kept busy from waking in the morning to sleeping at night would be a happier slave than one who is left with free time. Slaves desire to be of service, and they desire suffering. While they might temporarily enjoy having the opportunity to just sit and relax, ultimately that opportunity is denying that which they most desire and that which brings them the greatest fulfillment.
I look forward to reading your comments.
Comments
Mistress Milliscent,
Your ideas always encourage me about Women. So many i meet in this vanilla life refrain from all but the most minor indications in this direction.
At my best, i could be such a slave, a male (thus not fully adequate) version. i'm not always at my best. Willful. Too hard to train for 24/7.
In chastity for the lion's share of that, of course. That would build the allegiance needed to work fully and purposefully.
i share Your desire as a dream of mine, an ideal.
Posted by: mysster | October 8, 2010 3:51 PM
A powerful vision exquisitely expressed! May you one day come across someone who is up to the task, and there is no doubt that if they are, they can only be because of the intense pleasure they find in such service to the right person (in this occurence, you!)
I can most definitely relate to the the vision. The only time I have on my own away from companionship and service to my Goddess is my work, and the primary purpose of my work is to provide the means to make her life, and our lives, better.
Apart this work time, and sometimes even during, I am on call for her at all times. It is absolutely intoxicating. The more she needs, the more satisfaction I feel, and the more I want to serve.
I know many people think that there needs to be some downtime. I disagree. There hasn't been any downtime in the several years we've been together. I would be lost without her need for service. It is what is fulfilling for me, and she cares enough about me to allow me fulfillment in things that I enjoy through our companionship.
It is all encompassing, incredibly engaging, and extremely rewarding.
Socrates said, "The unexamined life is not worth living" (Apology 38a), and I would say, for the right submissive serving the mistress of his dreams, a life without service to the one that he loves and belongs to is not worth living.
Great post!
Dymion
Owned & collared by Goddess Selena
Posted by: Dymion | October 8, 2010 4:08 PM
mysster,
It is unfortunate that it is difficult to find wonderful dominant women, but I do know that we are out there. Worry not, I'm not the only one!
I think that many women are unable to embrace or explore their desires because they feel shame over those fantasies.
I also think however that the situation is changing. The internet shows us that we are not alone with our fantasies, shows us that there are countless other people who would enjoy exploring our fantasies.
That lessens feelings of shame, and makes it easier for women (and men) to embrace their desires.
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 8, 2010 5:40 PM
dymion,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with me. I appreciate having the opportunity to read about your life with your Goddess.
I am pleased to read that your experience is in line with my thoughts, and that it is indeed a good experience for you both.
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 8, 2010 5:44 PM
Milliscent-
I completely understand your sentiments, as you would expect.
And I don't find your requirements harsh. However, again, unsurprisingly, I, too, believe they are impossible and constitute an empty set solution.
In a mirror image manner, I've considered the same situation, and find it impossible.
As we have discussed, and, no doubt, contemplated, the intelligent, capable slave material would probably be inexorably and irretrievably altered and ruined by the constant, hard, harsh and unforgiving, demanding life of a slave.
Intellectual and creative sparks would probably be quenched over time, leading the owner to want a new model, selling or simply disposing of the old.
It is, I believe, the real-life paradox of ideal enslavement. The good ones won't last, the ones that won't break aren't worthy to begin with.
-saratoga
Posted by: saratoga | October 9, 2010 6:46 AM
There better be two of them, because my Mistress wants a girl like that as well.
Posted by: Alexis | October 10, 2010 7:53 AM
Hello Ms. Milliscent,
You have certainly hit a chord with this entry.
As this is roughly where Em and I are heading, it gives me much food for thought. I'm printing it out for Em to read and consider.
Thanks for this important philosophical statement.
Best,
scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse
Posted by: scott Kelly | October 10, 2010 9:41 AM
saratoga,
If only there were a market for selling slaves...
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 10, 2010 12:57 PM
alexis,
We live too far from each other for your Mistress and I to share one, so I'm with you, we better hope that there are two!
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 10, 2010 12:59 PM
scott,
Thank you. I am pleased that you feel my post might be helpful to you and Em.
I hope that is the case.
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 10, 2010 1:00 PM
It's a powerful idea and one that is very appealing. I suspect that it would work for a while but that the slave would burn out sooner or later.
There may be the odd person out there with the love and stamina to to do it but I'm not sure.
I can totally see the appeal though.
Posted by: Mykey | October 10, 2010 5:23 PM
mykey,
Burnout is always a risk. I wonder though, is a slave more likely to burnout if he is kept always busy, or if he is only kept partially busy, thereby having time and energy to reflect upon the inherent unfairness of his situation?
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 10, 2010 6:04 PM
I reckon the burnout would come from sheer fatigue, after a few years. But I guess that partly depends on the intensity of the service, if it had slower periods and periods where mistress and slave go and do pleasure activities together, like lunch or shopping or even going on vacation, then it might work well.
Posted by: Mykey | October 10, 2010 11:17 PM
Milliscent-
There is, regionally. I'm surprised you are not aware of this.
-saratoga
Posted by: saratoga | October 11, 2010 5:05 AM
saratoga,
Now why on earth would anyone ever consider buying a used slave when there is raw material in such abundance?
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 11, 2010 9:47 AM
Mykey,
Ah, if she didn't take him on vacation she would have to find a slave-sitter to make sure that he didn't get into trouble.
Unfortunately, it's much harder to tell one's mother in law that a slave-sitter is needed for one's husband than a baby-sitter for one's children.
;-)
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 11, 2010 9:50 AM
Ooh a slave sitter, that sounds fun.
Lol!!! I almost choked on my drink. Indeed so, but how amusing if Mother in law were the same way inclined...
Posted by: mykey | October 11, 2010 1:48 PM
mykey,
I'm glad you like the idea! Indeed it could give new meaning to the stereotypical evil mother in law!
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 11, 2010 1:53 PM
Ms Milliscent,
This female submissive finds erotic fulfilment in housework, and I doubt we're as few and far between as you imagine.
Thank you for all the inspired writing you offer here; we are fortunate that you are prepared to devote so much time and energy to sharing so much and I am very appreciative.
I'd have to admit that I find your 24/7 slave job description very enticing.
Lucy
Posted by: Lucia Pinczewski | October 20, 2010 4:37 PM
Lucy,
Thank you for your kind compliments! I'm pleased that you enjoy my little blog.
Enticing eh? Should we discuss further in email?
M
Posted by: Milliscent | October 29, 2010 7:28 PM
Hi,
Such a great discussion, very happy I've stumbled across this :)
Please excuse me if I come across as naive... In my early 20's I'm farily new to submission and although I haven't yet experienced a 24/7 or even an active submissive relationship, I've always dreamt of becoming the submissive you describe above. I think the issue of burnout has been a factor of this, and the thought of leaving my current 'life' behind... I suppose that when someone special comes along the second issue would become irrelevant...
On the subject of burnout, I can imagine that the main risk would be routine, although these chores and tasks are the key focus, it is the mundane aspect that will burnout a potential 24/7 slave. It becomes easier to forget the purpose of you being for your goddess, when stuck in routine, quite like working for a large organisation, you can become alienated from the purpose of achieving your goal. So will routine cause a slave to burnout or become unmotivated and Is variety is the key to preventing burnout, may I ask if anyone has any further thoughts?
Kindest regards,
K
Posted by: Music graduate UK | January 31, 2011 1:44 PM
k,
I'm glad that you stumbled upon my blog, and found something of value here.
I think that anytime we fall into a rut, we risk becoming dissatisfied with our lives. At least for me, variety is important.
M
Posted by: Milliscent | February 1, 2011 6:41 PM
Thank you for your thoughts Mistress Milliscent, Now I only wish I was based in Seattle :(
Posted by: Music graduate UK | February 12, 2011 2:26 PM
k,
Who knows, perhaps someday you will be able to visit me here in Seattle!
M
Posted by: Milliscent | February 12, 2011 2:57 PM
That would be great! Meanwhile I can still dream :-)
K
Posted by: Music graduate UK | February 28, 2011 3:48 PM
k,
I'm pleased to be a part of your dreams!
M
Posted by: Milliscent | March 6, 2011 11:40 AM