Dear Lady,

I can't see myself in that scenario either ("If I am a woman in a long-term, 24/7/365, female supremacist relationship I don't want a male slave who spends his entire life groveling and doing housework, with his toothbrush, while lightly bound, plugged, and wearing a little maid's outfit.")

The funny thing is, some people can. The man in this case wants it, and would be willing to give up his life (figuratively) to prove it. If only the woman would go along with it!

The greater problem is that no woman would want to the burden of satisfying this man's kink permanently. From time to time, yes, but not continually.

The lesser problem is when the man decides that his life sucks under the coveted and self-imposed drudgery and no sex, and he wants out!

Sheesh, back to reality.

Hello Ms. Milliscent,

I appreciate this clarification and agree with you without reservation.

An intelligent male that needs to be dominated will eventually see the logic in striving to get his priorities straight, serving cheerfully, with grace and gratitude.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

Susan’s pet,

You are right. Some men think that they want exactly that.

They don’t though; they just think that they do.

Silly men. ;-)

M

scott,

I think that you have said it well, cheerfulness and grace are wonderful attributes in one who gives service.

M

I have been thinking and pondering and pulling apart this post for two weeks now. I hope to have a meaningful answer for you sometime soon ... but for the present, while I agree with you in practice, I find myself resisting in principle.

Mistress,
I must say you have hit the nail on the head.(No surprise there) Being a former 24/7 slave. I must say I received as much satisfaction from being a complete person for my Mistress. And to be as positive as possible day to day. The pleasure was then already raised on my part for when my Mistress chose to play with me when and where. So much more I can not put it into words.
Thank you
Your
Scrot

When I first started down this path wiht my wife I thought that the groveling was what it was all about. Somewhere I read a statement that changed the way I view my relationship with my wife. The gist of the statement was that a good sub knew what his Mistress wanted before she did. This hit me like a box of rocks - now I understood what she wanted. Things have been great since and sometimes I actually get it right.

alexis,

Principal and practice are two different things, so it is perhaps OK to hold them in slight opposition.

In any event though, I do look forward to your thoughts as I value you opinion highly on such matters.

M

Scrot,

A most wonderful slave is often missed.

M

littlec,

It sounds like you are on the perfect track to bring joy to yourself and your wife!

M

I have been thinking of happiness. While you say that said relationship based on absolute grovelling can’t survive long term, I would argue that it can ONLY happen long-term ... as it would require an incredible amount of adjustment to a standard of living that no person in western culture is raised into. This period of adjustment could last a very long time, and during this period, the individual would be very unhappy. However, as with all things, once the new lifestyle was wholly adopted, and pretensions at continuing the old lifestyle thoroughly discarded, a form of happiness could be obtained.

Once dependency had been established, the complete slave would become fearful of it ever ceasing, and would want it to go on.

However, these things are highly contentious in this culture, under these laws and with our view upon the vivisection of the human psyche - which the situation would require. I don’t believe that anyone, short of a virtual monster, has it in them to commit to the rewriting of an individual’s personality this change would require.

Alexis,

I think that perhaps you and I are looking at this from crossed visions. I certainly think that absolute subjection can work short term, crazy, intense, and wild bdsm scenes happen all the time, and are loved by those involved. That is, I think, what I was referring too when I spoke of the short term.

The creation of a lifetime that was nothing but an intense bdsm scene, never ending, would I think, end as you mention with partners who were both emotionally disturbed, and as a result unable to function properly in the outside world. Hot fantasy perhaps, but I don't think that there are many people who would ever actually enjoy living that way. Except for that 'monster' you mention and the virtual child she created.

M