Labels, Your Domina Avoiding Them In Seattle
Someone emailed me a link to a site that discusses Pansexuality. It's an interesting site, but more importantly in my view, it is exploring an important concept, an important worldview.
It seems to me that our society places too much emphasis on both gender identity and sexual orientation. The site linked above makes the important point that such things are only labels, can, and perhaps should, be discarded.
I do consider myself to be pansexual, I've enjoyed fulfilling and erotic relationships with both men and women, I'm blessed to have intensely erotic experiences with people who embrace both genders on a regular basis.
It would be horribly limiting I think to declare myself only heterosexual, to refuse experiences with women, to shy away from experiences with people who explore gender in their lives. Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, these are I think labels which limit the human experience, so with that in mind I point you to the site that was sent to me in email:
The Theory of Pansexuality
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Dear Mistress Milliscent,
i became submissive since several years now, and made headways little by little. i am feminized by my Mistresses, as much as the normal life allows it, and turned in a humiliation slut. They got me used to feminine undies and clothes, which are a part of my life now.
Stopping such a relationship and throwing away all the things that go with it, would be a pain for me. Very hard to take. It is quite deep in me, now.
Such an event can happen after a great tantrum or such a thing. But, joining another of your very good posts, i think it can also happen to people that doesn’t share their secret with anybody, people who feel alone. Such a difference with people called as “normal” can sometimes become too difficult to endure when being alone. The desire to get back to a “standard” life and to be like “Mr. Everybody” takes the upper side.
Alexis advice is good, as well as thinking to the pain one can get from trying to get rid from ones deep sexuality and desires. Perhaps forums and the web in general can help for that, sharing problems or feelings, is a good thing sometimes.
Well, all that to tell my little opinion about that and to say that I liked your post, Mistress Milliscent, and the answers from Traci and Alexis.
Sincerely,
georgette.
Posted by: georgette | September 10, 2009 8:28 AM
georgette,
Thank you. I'm pleased that you enjoyed the posts.
Certainly I think you are right, the feeling of being alone in ones desires can be extremely negative, and of course is incorrect to boot. There is someone else out there no matter how odd one might think his fetish to be.
I also agree with you that the internet can help, it is a great tool for bringing people together, for allowing people to see that they are not alone in their interests no matter what those interests may be.
M
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September 13, 2009 11:20 AM