Dear Mistress Milliscent,

You have expressed perfectly the secondary directive that we all have in life (prime directive is to survive): "Even if you can only do one thing, do it well, strive for perfection in your doing of it."

I don't associate this with sex, but it can very well be.

Then there are some of us who are talented at serving and pleasuring our females in charge.

I have not been challenged to do boot polishing with my tongue, neither do I desire it. But serving my mate in any way, even boots, is my desire. If she wants it, then there it is. Forgive me if I don't sound humble. She knows my tongue's skill. And I am proud of it.

I would also be pleased to demonstrate my skill to any deserving woman, assuming that my wife would approve.

Milliscent-

Thank you for the mention. So glad you enjoyed the post.

It's quite informative, is it not?

Regards,

-saratoga

Good morning Mistress Milliscent -
I agree with You: The Best deserves the best service and attention.
I have discovered Your site just a few days ago and I must say You are the best I have ever seen. Intelligence, class, knowledge, care and respect for Your reader...
Thanks for being here. You are a great help.
Bravo.
YOU DESERVE THE BEST.

When I first read your post I was a bit discouraged, Having not the chance to serve yet, it led me to think that I needed to be perfect before I even tried to serve a Domme. I started to think that maybe I should practice and refine my service/skill before I even started to search a Domme out. But as much as I am a perfectist in my everyday life, I still believe that perfection is defined by giving your best in each and every single task and that perfection can change from day to day, indiviual to individual. I think in a lot of ways, perfection can lead to failure oftentimes because each day the face of perfection changes. But I loved the post you made, it gave me something to think about for a few days and I am not discouraged anymore.

Susan's pet,

The man who strives for perfection in sexual service will be very pleasing to the lady in his life indeed!

M

saratoga,

Who would have thought that wine was good for leather?

M

creative,

Thank you for your wonderful compliments! I hope that you enjoy my little blog for a very long time to come.

M

calais,

I believe that total perfection in anything is probably impossible to attain, but it is the pursuit of it that is important for that yields excellence.

Your comment brings up an interesting question that I've seen discussion of in the past. Is it a good for a potential submissive to practice his submission while he seeks out a dominant?

Perhaps doing so would increase his attractiveness as a partner, or perhaps it would reinforce things which she would not approve of.

An interesting question, but likely impossible to answer as everyone would have their own opinion of it.

M