Mistress Milliscent, how appropriate you are writing about Oz, because i came to Your blog with the intent of changing my name to 'prisonbitch'. Of course, i too enjoy the blurring of lines of gender, as i rub my version of a klit through my blue panties reading Your erotic musings. Thank You again!

Hello Dear Mistress Milliscent,
How true you are!
So much good times lost because of rejecting even the least attempt of understanding the other...
Perhaps that soon, under the imperious pressure and the authority of my Mistresses, shall i know new pleasures?
Friendly and sumissively your.
georgette

I could live with that principle.

prisonbitch,

I am pleased that the blog gives you something fun to read while you rub through your panties!

M

georgette,

I am quite certain that your Mistress shall have you sucking cock in no time at all!

M

Susan's pet,

I'm glad that you agree.

M

Milliscent, I love this post. I, too, wish that there was less societal bias about gender and about those, like me, who experience gender confusion. I guess I would be in the categor of "feminine envy." I imagine that I would never have developed a sexual fetish around humiliation about my desire to be feminized if there were not such taboos built into our societal view about men wearing feminine clothing. I guess my point is (and it's too late for me) that if society were more open about gender and transgender, then I suspect I may not have developed sexual arousal around being feminized? Who knows?

nancy,

I imagine you are quite right, fetishes are often a result of social conditioning and mores.

I do though think that bias over differently gendered people will slowly fade away and that acceptance will grow with time.

M

MM: What a lovely and intriguing post! I view others.. be they friends, lovers and other delightful deviants as individuals.. not by orientation, gender or gender choice. I do find it amusing that many people find the need to place labels on others. I've been questioned based on my scene partners. "Are you lesbian? You seem to sub to women but top men on occasion." I guess some people just need to know. Perhaps I'm being told that I should make some sort of declarative choice. I don't wish to do so. I love men.. and I love women. I have also shared intimacy and kink with several people who defy gender roles and identification. I see them all as people.. individuals who are very dear to me and I feel that my life is richer as a result.
Regards,
Your bi poly masochistic and occasionally somewhat sadistic, shamelessly kinky and kind reader.

Amy

The best article i have ever read on this subject.

i have sent it to my Mistress who thought it a great assett to our 24/7 relationship.....

Many, many thanks.

nic

Amy,

Thank you for your comment, I greatly enjoyed reading your words.

I think that perhaps the majority of people are uncomfortable with anyone whom they can not place an easy label upon, hence the seemingly universal desire to do such labeling of individuals.

You are, I think right in refusing such simplistic group labels.

M

nic,

Thank you for your very kind compliment, I am pleased that you found such value in my little post.

M