We are constantly within ourselves. Only we can truly understand what is in our minds, and as a result we know ourselves better than anyone else ever could. No other person on earth can understand my personal corset fetish better than I understand it myself, I can know beyond any doubt the exact scent, sight, touch, and thought that makes me wet. Others can indulge my fetish, my desire, they can even share and explore it with me, but they can never know my personal desire as well as I do.

For this reason, this knowledge of ourselves, we can be truly spectacular lovers to ourselves. We touch ourselves, we caress ourselves, and in our own way we fuck ourselves. We all have sex with ourselves in this way, some more frequently than others, but we all masturbate, we all try to find bliss with our inner lover.

It is unfortunate, but while I think that these solo encounters have truly amazing potential, I think that masturbation is often a bit disappointing for many people. Especially I think for men. I don’t think that the average man takes much time with his pleasure, puts much thought or effort into his self-love. I think that for the average man it’s a quick, perhaps guilty, wank in the bathroom or bed, and then it’s off to sleep. An orgasm yes, but I don’t imagine it’s a very explosive or shattering orgasm, simply the minimum to give relief.

I think that perhaps women in general are a bit different. Again masturbation for the average woman may be oftentimes disappointing, but I do believe that the average woman puts a bit more into it than the average man. He certainly never talks of his toys, assuming that he even has one, but untold millions of women out there consider their vibrators one of their very best friends.

I do think that vaguely unsatisfying self-love is a shame, and it need not be that way. Men (and women of course) can with a bit of effort achieve some of the most intense sexual releases of their lives with themselves. Why shouldn’t masturbatory encounters be so good that they have the potential to rank right up there with the very best sexual encounters of ones life. I think that with thought, with effort, and with a complete lack of shame they can.

I think that even for those of us who delight in male orgasm denial, tremendously powerful orgasms achieved through the male’s masturbation are important. If I deny a man, I want to deny him something valuable. I want his suffering to be real. It is delightfully cruel to deny a male the ability to orgasm for a long period of time. It is so much more so when the male is willing and able to give himself truly earth shattering orgasms.

Perhaps that is where the Masturbatrix comes into play. Perhaps the submissive male needs a woman to make the decisions about his masturbation. To direct it so that he takes the time to properly pleasure himself when allowed to do so. To make sure that he indulges in his fetishes while warming himself to orgasm. To ritualize it to ensure that it becomes a long and meaningful sexual encounter instead of just a quick wank. To accept it as a form of worship from the submissive to remove whatever lingering guilt he or she may feel about it. To ensure that the orgasms he does experience are truly amazing for him.